3 Day Potty Training: Is It Possible?
Potty training girls is tough. Potty training boys is even harder. I’m sure you have come across 3 day potty training methods promising you can take care of potty training in 3 days or less. But you wonder if such methods are just gimmicks. Same here! When I started potty training my daughter, she was such a hard case. I started looking into all of these potty training methods for girls, programs, and books. I was so desperate and wanted a quick fix. “Only 3 days!” I thought… that’s awesome!
But which program or book do I choose? What potty training method is most effective? There are so man
y out there that promise different things. They all differ in how to approach potty training. My daughter was so scared of the potty, and stubborn at the same time. So I had to find a program that was going to consider her temperament and fears. So I decided to do what any good blogger would do. I decided to review some of these popular programs. For myself, and my readers…you’re welcome!
First let’s answer the question, “Can I potty train my child in 3 days?”
What is the best potty training method? Well that depends on how you define potty training. If you mean that your child will be completely accident free after 3 days, then the answer is NO. And any program that promises you that, you should definitely stay away from. Your child will have accidents and that is completely normal.
If you think that your child will be diaper free at night time after only 3 days, then the answer is also a resounding NO! Being able to hold urine in during the night is a developmental thing. Your child’s bladder has to signal the brain and wake her up. That is something that happens with age. This is not something you can train or control. Sure a few lucky parents will take away diapers during the day, and their child will stay dry at night too. But those are a lucky few, and usually the ones that start potty training late, meaning the child has already achieved that physiological development.
Now if you define potty training as your child being able to control pee or poop and let it go in potty or toilet. You expect a few accidents here and there, and you don’t think night-time control is a prerequisite. Then YES, it is possible to potty train in 3 days.
So how do I potty train in 3 days?
There are a few different methods and programs. Keep in mind that they all have pretty much the same concept. Which is that you get rid of diapers, devote yourself to at least 3 days of stay at home potty training, and not use pull-ups to sabotage the process. So I will discuss the main differences between them.
Out of all the programs I have reviewed, this one is my favorite 3 days potty training method. This program is created by a mother of 4, and daycare owner who has tons of experience with potty training toddlers. In this program, Carol teaches you an easy to follow method of potty training, with no pressure to nighttime train.What I really love is that she covers a variety of topics. She talks about differences between potty training boys and girls. She has special sections in the program for special needs children (autism, down syndrome etc). There is a section especially for twins/multiples, and older children who may be more difficult to train. The best part of this program is the “bumps in the road” section, which every potty training parent will face during potty training. In this section she addresses fear of pooping, wetting the bed, tantrums, regression, public restrooms and so much more. She also teaches you how to handle outings to places like the mall, fairs, pools, and even airplane travels. I also love the fact that you can ask her questions when they come up during the training process (and trust me, your always going to have questions). Carol offers a “lifeline” where you can reach her directly, with any unique questions you may have.
This program goes way beyond a quick 3 day potty training method, Carol Cline literally helps you through EVERYTHING. There isn’t a topic that she doesn’t cover. You are truly getting your money’s worth. That is why I recommend this program above any other. Don’t be discouraged by the gimmicky sales page. The site could use a little work in the marketing department. I bet many parents are turned off by the silly video. But if you overlook that, it’s a really great program. Another great thing about the program is that it’s available for immediate download, so you don’t have to wait to start potty training. Here is the newest version of the Start Potty Training Program .
This is another popular potty training program. And as most of the other programs, you ditch the diapers, offer tremendous praise and rewards for success. The main difference with this program is that your child is allowed to wear diapers at night. Dana considers daytime and nighttime training as two separate entities. Dana says “you should also understand (and let your child know) that he’ll still be using diapers at nighttime, and that nighttime diapers are OK — even for big kids! (The fact is that bladder control at night takes longer to master.)” This alone is a huge plus in my book. I need a program that’s going to offer a realistic method and approach, not a quick gimmick. This program is great, not as extensive as my first pick, but still a good and honest program.
3 Day Potty Training, by Lora Jensen
A program that quickly gained popularity (I’m guessing it has something to do with title). The gist of this program is that you take away all diapers, put on underwear, and don’t ever revert back to diapers. You offer liquids and high fiber foods. And you praise and reward your child for using the potty. It’s a pretty simple program, straightforward and easy to follow. There are a few things I didn’t like. First Lora has you refer to accidents as “yucky” or “pew”.
Now my little girl had a very bad fear of “letting it go.” (you can read about that HERE) Among all my research, I learned that kids with these fears usually view their “duty” as part of themselves and their body. In my opinion, the worst thing you can do is call “a part of your child’s body”, “yucky”. That’s a horrible idea, and will only make your child feel ashamed. The other thing that was a deal breaker was that Lora has you take away diapers, even at night-time. I agree taking them away during the day, but as I mentioned before night-time training is a developmental milestone, that matures with age. Lora says that if your child is at least 22 months old, they should be waking up dry and gives you a few different options of “nighttime training”. I tried her method and it just didn’t work. There is no way my 22 month old was going to stay dry at night. That is not something you can “train”. She wet the bed over and over. When she woke up, the diaper had cold pee, and she had no idea she had done it. Meaning she did at some point during the night while she was asleep. Waking my daughter up from her sleep to take her potty just wasn’t an option for us. And you can’t really change things up either, Lora says you have to “follow the program to the T” for it to be successful. This program may work for others, but it didn’t work for us.
So there you have it! A quick guide to the most popular 3 day potty training programs that promise to potty train your child in a few days. If anyone would like me to review that I haven’t mentioned please leave me a comment below, and I will try my best to get a potty training PDF for review.